I know most of you would say
that Long Distance Relationship
is really hard. It might be hard
for some instance because of the
distance and the communication
which are really the risks of it.
But you have to extend the
patience and optimism that
everything will be worth it at the
end. Thus, you have to consider
some matters to have it work out
at the long run.
– Nowadays, there are a lot of
ways on how to communicate to
each other and it is even way
cheaper now because of the
social media and chat apps.
Thus, make it to a point on
everyday that you have like an
hour of talking or videocalling to
each other so that at least you
share your moments everyday
and that what makes your
relationship even stronger
because of that bond that you
shared to each other even if
you’re miles away.
– Someone told me before that
consistency is really hard to
achieve and i really do disagree.
This is actually the most
important ingredient on your
relationship to have that spark
be the same when both of you
have first met. You have to be
consistent with the greetings, the moment that you wake up and that before you sleep. Also, be consistent with the
communication, at most. I
believe it’s the easiest thing that
both of you can maintain the
consistency. Start it with the
simple things to have the big
thing comes so easy for you to
– You don’t see each other
everyday nor talk every single
minute of the day. Thus, being in
a long distance relationship, you
really have to be transparent
with what you do or of who you are with. You have to at least
share your everyday experience
so that even if you’re far away
from each other, you would feel
your partner’s presence because you know what he/she is doing in the other end of the world.
– It is the best foundation of the relationship. Long distance relationship is really hard when you always have doubts and dont have trust to each other. You have to at least avoid quarrels because that can make LDR really hard. Trust can help obtaining the transparency, consistency and communication in the relationship. If you want your relationship to last long, put big trust to your partner.
– I have read one article that prayer is the sweetest thing that you can offer to your partner. Put God in the center of your relationship. Always ask for guidance and even blesssings about your relationship. Pray to each other. Let God be with the both of you from each other’s absence so that it would be easier for you to surpass whatever test of time and distance the LDR gives.