Long Distance Relationship

I know most of you would say

that Long Distance Relationship

is really hard. It might be hard

for some instance because of the

distance and the communication

which are really the risks of it.

But you have to extend the

patience and optimism that

everything will be worth it at the

end.  Thus, you have to consider

some matters to have it work out

at the long run.

1. Communication

– Nowadays, there are a lot of

ways on how to communicate to

each other and it is even way

cheaper now because of the

social media and chat apps.

Thus, make it to a point on

everyday that you have like an

hour of talking or videocalling to

each other so that at least you

share your moments everyday

and that what makes your

relationship even stronger

because of that bond that you

shared to each other even if

you’re miles away.

 

2. Consistency

– Someone told me before that

consistency is really hard to

achieve and i really do disagree.

This is actually the most

important ingredient on your

relationship to have that spark

be the same when both of you

have first met. You have to be

consistent with the greetings, the moment that you wake up and that before you sleep. Also, be consistent with the

communication, at most. I

believe it’s the easiest thing that

both of you can maintain the

consistency. Start it with the

simple things to have the big

thing comes so easy for you to

do it.

 

3. Transparency

– You don’t see each other

everyday nor talk every single

minute of the day. Thus, being in

a long distance relationship, you

really have to be transparent

with what you do or of who you are with. You have to at least

share your everyday experience

so that even if you’re far away

from each other, you would feel

your partner’s presence because you know what he/she is doing in the other end of the world.

4. Trust

– It is the best foundation of the relationship.  Long distance relationship is really hard when you always have doubts and dont have trust to each other. You have to at least avoid quarrels because that can make LDR really hard. Trust can help obtaining the transparency, consistency and communication in the relationship. If you want your relationship to last long, put big trust to your partner.

5. Prayer

– I have read one article that prayer is the sweetest thing that you can offer to your partner. Put God in the center of your relationship. Always ask for guidance and even blesssings about your relationship. Pray to each other. Let God be with the both of you from each other’s absence so that it would be easier for you to surpass whatever test of time and distance the LDR gives.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unexpected Love in a Perfect Time

Familiarity at first sight, strangers as we greeted.

 

I’m happy to say that this NBSB girl is finally in a relationship, and cheers to that! Hahah anyways i won’t be telling stories of how we became lovers from being just in “familiar” to each other. It might be an incident or just a real perfect timing to both of us though that we meet “again”. I must really say, love really do exist when you least expect and pain does exist when you big expect it. And he was this guy whom i never thought that i well get to fall in love with. We might have standards but it’s with the soul that will overpower those standards that you set up for. Hence, standards on which it overqualifies when you see the real love from that person to you.

Loving someone is like opening your soul to that person that both of you is so comfortable to each other. You cannot think of the numbers but of the time that you have become so happy being with the person and so real as you get along with the similarities and differences that you have towards each other. It’s being so genuine that do not need a lot of efforts i must say. Efforts are nothing when you are not being who you really are and pretending to be of someone else’s mask. I always told him  that i hate efforts and all he really needs to do is just being himself. I don’t need any tangible stuff, intangibles are the most satisfying effort a real person can show his real love for the person.

 

After almost 24 years of existence, i must say my boyfriend is worth the wait and patience is really a virtue because God has really this someone to send into your life that will not just brings you happiness, yet will bring you closer to Him and be blessed with pure love and soul.image

 

 

 

Valentine’s Day Though

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via I Don’t Know About You, But This Valentine’s Day I’m Going To Enjoy My Goddamn Life — Thought Catalog

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